The idea, you see, is to be whole first.
Whole entirely and utterly, in every way possible, before finding that significant other. What, then, is the purpose of that significant other? No, it is not to complete you. It is to enhance you. You know how they add ornaments around an already beautiful and perfect cake? Yes, in that way. If you feel empty now, don't expect that significant other to pour love into that deep and dark hole. Because the sad truth is this: we all feel empty inside. We search for something, anything, to fill that emptiness. And chances are, when you find that other person, it's never going to be enough. In simple terms, I guess what I'm trying to say is: Be a good lover first, and a good lover will come to you.
You're broken up inside and you're looking for someone to fix you, someone to love you, someone to be there for you. But you see, this is the worst and most erroneous mentality ever. Because the startling truth is this: WE ALL ARE. Well, majority of us are in any case. And if we, every single one of us, are broken up inside, who can possibly fix us? Is there really no one left?
Think about it. And then maybe come to the answer I've stumbled upon many many times before.
I am going to ignore the world, unless I have no choice but to because of ________, or you are those people who can still manage to reach me even when ________. Contact me in January.